A twist on cake-eating & dropping a bomb of my own

[BrightFuture]

2T2M, what would your H do before the BD if you would have an emergency like that? I bet he would do the exact same thing. He would ask you if the situation was serious enough for him to come over. If not, he would stay working, right? I know that being in situation like you have now emphasizes this kind of behavior. But, honestly, if your M would solid and loving, you would probably not even second guess his works and actions regarding this. He showed a concern and asked you if you needed him, and this is a big deal. Don’t over think it.

I am on the same boat about the status quo, except my H told me that we were done. But there is no movement to finalize it. So, I’m assuming that he is comfortable where he is. He is also pursuing his dream to live in the other place.

I personally think that you need to give it more time.

I’m glad you are feeling better. I hope you will recover soon. Take care.