An End/Beginning of Year Update

[adinva]

Wow, guys. I dont undervalue sex because i'm a woman. I dont think you guys understand. There are hd and ld women as there are men. My h for example was ld. So i dont like you saying i have my opinion because i'm a woman. Woman is not a monolithic thing and if i can generalize anyway, i think women are insulted when we're lumped together and told we all are the same.

Second, it is excruciating to me to be without sex. I miss it terribly. I miss it in theory more than the actual sex because i feel i missed out on something amazing that other people get.

But i feel less bad about it when i dont dwell on numbers and dates. What you focus on, expands. The point i was trying to make is why focus on the minutes and seconds, doesnt that exacerbate your pain? And teaearlgreyhot answered that for me.

I resent the implication that i dont feel pain because i'm a woman and us lil ole gals would never understand how really important sex is to men. I feel it but i try to avoid dwelling on it.

Sometimes i feel like a broken record in db-land because i bump into so many guys who have stereotyped women and fail to account for their vast diversity and uniqueness of any specific woman.