I am sorry to hear that. When I did it 7 years ago we fought for months and H said hates me, done, never again. We never really did NC but I did do 180s. Then I started seeing someone else and there he came. That took 8 mos. This time I think I am just done. I know what to do but we are fighting like crazy and I can tell this time he is really done with everything. I am doing 180's now, going out, being happier and doing things with my kids. But H is just angry although says all the time he doesn't want to fight and get along for kids. I can see it really does a toll on him when we fight. I am really trying now not to rock the boat, agree and very little contact. I need to let him decompress. One of the problems and nothing I can do about is he has poured himself into work and works 6-7 days a week about 12 hours a day and is really tired. He has no time to mentally relax and think about anything. I am sure that is on purpose. I need to make friends or be friendly for the kids sake. I am resolved to our marriage being over. I am a little burnt this time around too. As much as I love him I am ready for a new life.
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
