Barrybran II - Six Weeks In

[Barrybran]

Alrighty, last night was the vent, today comes the questions.

My wife has recently started asking about my infidelities. She is focused on the infidelities themselves which from what I've read, makes sense. Someone previously described me as a WAS who became then LBS and I feel that this is true as I checked out of our relationship at the time of my cheating and now my wife has checked out.

For me, my feelings are a major part of this period. I made the wrong choices but I have trouble separating the feelings from the acts as I felt alone and neglected by my wife. In my mind, to separate my feelings from the acts is to tell half the story.

What I'd like to know is if anyone feels I should concentrate on just my wife's concerns and address the infidelities themselves or should I be telling the whole story (what I did, why I did it, how I felt, etc.).

My wife is trying very hard and I can see this however I know that she is more focused on only one part of the story instead of the whole story. Any thoughts would be appreciated.