You have every right to feel angry. Feel it, but don't HURT YOURSELF!!
So, he asked and maybe he was hoping for a certain answer. Maybe he was hoping you would say "No." But, that's on him.
He asked and you coulda said, "Yes."
Still, you are expecting him to act a certain way. Is it unrealistic??
I don't think saying anything will achieve anything positive at this point.
But, maybe you are facing some truths about him and what he is capable of today?? He seems to be offering you something, but is it not enough for you?
Raine wrote a post a few months back to me. She said that I needed to make a decision about what I wanted. If I chose to continue to stand for my marriage, then, I needed to be aware that I was standing in the fire--and accept the fire. If I was able to accept who my H is today and accept he will continue to behave far below my expectations of a partner, then I won't get burned. But, I have to accept him as he is today--I have to accept him as the man he is today and NOT the man I wish he would be.
It's hard... I'm still not sure what my decision is...
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
