What do YOU want from this? It might be just me overthinking.... There's. No magic button. You can't. Make stuff happen and you haven't. Done anything wrong. I am struggling with this too. If she wanted to be there to talk or be with you, I guess she would. Mine too. But she's. Not. So again, what will make YOU happy. Assume she's. Not a factor in that decision and go for it.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14