Before, I was happy to carry the load on the theory that I was doing it for my H and my M, and we could have this great R. After a while, I just got mad that he doesn't seem to appreciate it and in fact seems to respect me less and less as time goes on. (I know. Everyone on here tells you you have to do it for YOU, but I think you really have to learn some things by experience.)
This time, I will be the agent of change - for me and my kids. That's something I can feel good about.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
