In others news, I went on a hiking meetup this morning, and met a German girl with a wonderful dog. We really had a great time on the hike, she laughed a lot. Every little bit helps the self-esteem and self-confidence.
Also, I am meeting up with another woman I met online tonight. She does know that I am currently going through a divorce. Her husband cheated on her with multiple women and she left him, so she said we should stick to other topics. I am just going to meet her, it will be much different than last night because she knows my situation and that the D isn't final yet, so I feel like it's all out in the open on this one.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14
Adultery wasn't even a thought in my head but if I was meeting someone for coffee from a dating site, I'd want to know right up front if he was in the midst of a D for many reasons. One of those reasons being, how emotionally available is this guy?
Just a perspective.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
