And I will practice being humble by admitting to all that MrBond and gabbysmom said. I made a mistake by not listening to you and not focusing on what you suggested.

I did and practice listening and validating but that's not going to be enough. She did say I seemed better at listening, but I think there is room for improvement.

During our chat I told her several times that I'm sorry she felt less than me. I told her that I hope I have demonstrated my love thru my actions during thr A...

I said that I made a choice every morning to love you regardless od the situation.

In any case, I am here now. I'm at a place where I need to learn what is intimacy and how do you partake in it.

Sometimes we have an awkward silence now and I'm worried she will think this looks just like the old marriage.

Where can I read about intimacy conversation? Who writes about this topic?


Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017