KdoGS, just ask yourself what is best for you, what do you really want right now. Have you healed enough to be able to be present in a new R and not carry baggage from the past?

One caution, let her know you aren't yet D.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss