adinva, yeah, ok, I admit it sounds over the line. Sorry about that. It's mostly tongue-in-cheek. I'm in a very similar situation myself. I love my wife and keep all this complaining away from her because she's heard it all before. I understand that she doesn't see the point in sex at all at this point. But I don't argue that with her because there's nothing new to be said.
But you have to admit the logic sounds absurd in certain contexts. If you can't have sex with anyone at all because you're married, and you're supposed to abstain until you're married, what does that leave?!
