I agree AnotherStander that it wont bring me happiness, and that she is very confused. But with how set she is on it, and the fact that we are past the mandatory wait period, and she wants it done so quickly, I have just surrendered and accepted I cannot change the path we are on. If anything, it seems our new R/M would come after the divorce is over, if ever. She is so controlled by her parents, I don't think she would ever go against their wishes and get back with me, so I'm saying the serenity prayer and recognizing it's something I cannot change or control.
She will need to find out in the coming months all of the things you mentioned. That dating is hard, that the allure of bring rid of me will not bring instant happiness. I cannot wait in limbo while she comes to that realization. I moved here to start a family and have a better life, and I will do that with or without her. I would prefer with her, but right now, that is nowhere near on her radar it seems.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14
