I don't think I have the best advise to give as I only have 9 days difference from u But I'll try. I'm feeling better n better about my sich. Yes I have accepted the fact that my WAW is done. I don't like it at all but I've accepted it and YES I still have hope.
Even though my WAW told me several times that we needed help(and I should have listened) I personally feel her decision is the most SELFISH thing a mother could do. (I heard her loud n clear now and am will to do whatever it takes. But it's too late for her right now).
For You. Do not move out even if she demands it, stand up for yourself.(even if u have to get angry). You did not ask/nor want this divorce and she knows it. If she wants to move out than u could say "well it's not what I want and if that's what u want I won't stand in ur way.
I'm on my phone typing and it's hard. I'll get back with u later in the week. I'm out hunting. GAL with a good friend
I suggest u Go GAL and detach It helps alof
Me: 39 W: 33 M: 9 years T: 10 years S7 S10 BD 10/19/13 W Filed 11/25/13 EA Confirmed 2/2/14 (no evidence of PA) WAW moved out 3/15/14