Full day today in New Normal land. Took 3 boys to the YMCA for basketball and racquetball this morning. (S12 had a friend sleep over). Playing racquetball with S10 was an adventure. Found myself just enjoying the silliness and togetherness. Old JF would have made it stressful trying to teach him the rules and how to properly hit it. New JF really didn't worry about anything but sharing time, laughing, and enjoying the moment. Lots of smiles and laughter.
After dealing with a flat tire (fun), spent the rest of the afternoon watching S10 play bball. Sat with W, but had great conversation with others around. Talked with a really good friend that I don't see much anymore. He complimented me on my weight loss and made the comment that I looked like I felt good. It must be that obvious. W got up and went to the bathroom and wound up sitting with some other folks chatting during the next game. I honestly didn't even notice where she was or care. (Big moment for me when I realized that). Had several folks around me I don't normally sit with (W's friends) that I talked with and cheered with during the game. Really good looking woman next to me kept touching my shoulder and leg while we were talking. Didn't mean anything, just the way she is, but it was nice.
Ate with a group after games. Interesting developments there. I was the only dad in the group tonight. I was at the adult table with 5 women. Old JF would have been out of place and let W do all the talking. No more. New JF was charming, listening, laughing and carrying on with everyone. Felt awesome. Our group is a little rowdy and we enjoyed ourselves loudly. I used to feel uncomfortable in those situations, but living in the moment is nice. Being the only man in the group, I got attention from all 5 ladies, including W. Funny moment when W actually admitted to the others that I do all the dishes and the laundry. The looks around the table were priceless.
Today was a great day in enjoying my new bells and whistles that have been developed. I even dealt with the flat tire in a calm, cool manner. ) Not the norm for me). I loved talking, listening and enjoying the company of others. W was engaged in conversation while at the restaurant, laughing and smiling. That are me feel good. No matter how she reacts at home now, it was a good day out. My girl seemed to enjoy herself out today, and for that, I am happy.
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