What you're missing is that she's currently a self centred raving nut job…no offence, we're all in the same boat LOL! Don't try to rationalize it too much. I do it too, but we need to back off of mind reading and rationalizing. Hence the genius of "detach, back off, GAL".
Resentment occurs when we aren't doing what we need to care for ourselves, though we expect others to do it for us.
