Kdog, I agree with what you posted. I wonder if my W and I have anything left to enjoy. I've continued to write and refine an email to here explaining how I feel. I leave it in my drafts in with no TO address. that way it'll never accidentally go anywhere.
She's self absorbed. Walked away from me and the kids, checked out and lived like a house guest for the past 12-18 months and piled on a mountain of debt to indulge in her horses. I feel like she'd also have to tell me what would change. right now, I am doing my work. I guess I shouldn't worry about her's. Still sometimes....ugh
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14