M and 2, You descriptions of sitch match mine. My W is obsessed with her Horses. oringally, my girls rode with her. Now only D13 still rides and D16 has been moved to the back burner in life. while she was still here, she slept on the couch, worked on her barns stuff and acted like a house guest. We were all pretty tired of it. she just checked out....

now she tells me that she's at her parents and "doesn't have a moment to breath" life's so busy with her older parents and commuting back to here to tend to her horses. I have the kids, the house and the rest of life....what am I missing here....?

me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14