M, I agree with what you said. to me ML is something that you might do if healing and moving forward. if you're not moving anywhere good, what's the point in connecting that way....? if it were me, it would hurt too much.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14