Hi Melissa.... I was reading your thread the other day and totally related to you saying you no longer wanted to make decisions based from fear. When I looked at the complaints my H head about me that were valid, I realized many of the things I did/didnt do were all based in fears. Because of this many of my DB goals were to defeat those fears....some fears may never permanently go away, but through this process we learn to recognize when they show up and push through the fear to responsd/react/make choices that are based on what's real.
Continue to grow...cant wait to see you how you kick fear in the butt
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
