labug, Do you mean just leave W alone and let her come along or not. At this point that's W's job to do. W asked for the space, now she should close the gap. am I understanding?


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14