Happy new year! I am sorry to hear that your interactions with your H are still awkward. I understand a lot of what you are dealing with financially - I am also in that "figuring out" state and coming to terms with what my reality will look like once the D is final (who knows when that will be since H has done nothing since he filed in 9/12).
I was anxious about not finding a job, but like you, I was certain that I would figure something out, even if that meant going to Starbucks, Wallmart or doing whatever. I am sure you will find a good fit for you - because you will make it happen. That is just who we are - we deal with it and make it work.
As for the status change in FB, I also went from married to nothing because well, it just seemed ridiculous keeping the married tag when my H was posting pics with OW - lol... I don't remember it sending any notification to anyone (I also hate those), so it should not be an issue, but perhaps others will chime in confirming or denying this.
I wish you the best for this year - I know you will be more than fine. I always read, but rarely post because I just see you doing so well, although I know it's not easy. I also always learn from you and since we are at similar stages in our process, reading about your sitch makes me not feel so alone.
You are a special person and bigger, better things will come your way.
(((((Ad))))))
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
