Hello! 20 year marriage teetering... (part VI)

[BrightFuture]

AS, good to hear about you doing well, spending some great time with your kids, and meeting a nice woman. I’m not convinced though that you are not standing anymore. I can see that the fact that OM was at the ski trip bothered you some. I might be wrong though, it is just my impression.

About your boss… ML just two times year might be a huge problem for his W. I can see how she could not think about all other good things in her life, but sees this as a big issue. I can relate, actually. I had a good life. The things that I was upset with my H about were the luck of affection and his NOT desire to ML. I almost walked out of the M 5 years ago. I realized that I could not and didn’t want to do it, and I tried to work it out hoping that I could get what I needed. Needless to say that H felt a lot of pressure in this department. I also nagged some. He BD’d me. So, what I want to say that ML issue could be main one for your boss. Just my opinion.