Thanks.

As for her motivations, I know she has a lot of issues. Abusive childhood, teen mother, stage 4 cancer that results in her coming to the onco clinic every 3 weeks for the rest of her life or it comes back…I trust her. I trust that she was very unhappy but you're right, part of it is the typical MLC stuff as well. I might have rose coloured glasses on, I just trust that this isn't "if it wasn't for you I'd be living the coolest life ever" stuff.

I do have a password, I just left it down for a minute after reading threads and she picked it up and asked me. She must have reacted to the word "Divorce".


Resentment occurs when we aren't doing what we need to care for ourselves, though we expect others to do it for us.