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[WB2014]

Hi, I'm wondering how long my posts will be in moderation?

I started somethings for me today and it was good!

Since one of my husbands complaints is that I am super negative, I have put some positive things in place. FOR ME.

I started journaling anything that was positive in a day. So, I can look back in difficult times and see at a glance, my week was not all bad. Can be little things, like the sunny day - or it can be something major. I am trying to find the positive light in all scenarios.

Second, this morning, instead of starting the day off scrolling through my iphone... I began with reading, and then a morning meditation. Let me tell you, I felt absolutely AMAZING, confident and positive. It was just a 5 minute thing - but it made a huge difference. I felt calmer and more grounded.

So much so that when my husband asked what I was doing, and I later told him - he had a negative reaction. It I just let it bounce off me and go on. It did not drag me into a pit of uncertainty, despair, need to justify etc I was really proud of myself.

Got my Divorce remedy book today - so started that as we'll.

Hope my posts show up soon - would love feedback.