Hi Portia,

Thanks for expressing you thoughts with us. As already said many of us have these same sentiments. We are done but not...

I think reality is that what we have experienced will always be with us and will shape who we are. It is our job to recognize this and not allow it to negatively affect us. In that I can see how easily this would cause troubles in any future relationship. The lack of trust, the wondering/doubting the sincerity of someone we let in.

I have wondered if true and final healing/closure will only come when we do begin to let down our guard and let someone else in??

Wishing you the best on this years adventures. Here is to finding our Happiness and Contentment smile


I would rather feel pain then never feel at all...
Separated 3/2012
T 34 yrs
M 27 yrs