So I mentioned W took the kids on a skiing trip and I didn't know if OM went along, but assumed he probably did. S11 called me from there last night and wanted to Skype, while we were doing that I saw OM in the background. They are all staying at W's sister's place. After I hung up I was just really struck with what strange and bizarre behavior this is for W. It is so completely unlike the W I used to know. I look at it this way- before BD if W's sister had left her H and told W she was going to come visit us with her sons and a new BF and stay in our house I think W would have freaked out! There would have been NO WAY she'd allow her sister to stay here with a BF while still married to her H, ESPECIALLY with her kids. She would have been shocked that her sister would even ask. I would have heard stories every day after work about how scandalous her sister is behaving. I really don't know W anymore, she is a total stranger. The W I knew has been totally replaced by this new persona, one that I don't care for in the least! So strange.
