This is also true of my sitch. I gave my W responsibility for my happiness. I texted her a one-sided(expecting nothing back) apology when I realized this. She actually thanked me for saying something. good luck to you!

no matter what happens we become better people and partners to someone by learning and applying these things.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14