GM,
Congratulations! It's been a long, hard road for you and your family and I'm glad to see that the new year is starting off in a kinder, gentler way for you. Hopefully this nightmare of paperwork and negotiations will be over soon.

You've handled your situation w/grace and dignity and you should be very proud of yourself. Even though you had a lawyer, you, and only you, actually did the leg work to get everything in place towards the end.

May the new year be a far better one for you and your boys.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.