Yeah. The mad MFer message wasn't directed for me. She apologized and explained that she's hurting and pissed at W, our situation, she won't listen/talk, her actions and decisions. They got into it a bit and she let W know how she feels. So now W isn't happy being there. She cut off the money and reality seems to have started to set in.
MIL believes in us as much as I do. I know her emotions are in this too. I'm taking what she tells me and weighing it with everything else. But she's there and sees what's going on.
Apparently after W and I texted yesterday OM picked her up she hasn't been back to her parents.
I'm not sure W will come back. I hope but it'll be awhile and a lot of work. I'm seeing more of her actions and script. Understanding a bit more. Accepting a bit more. It's not easy. I'm hanging on and not sure if I should be. I know we are only 7 weeks into this, OM has been there only 2 weeks, it's too early to really know or make big decisions. As stubborn as my W is things may be awhile...
She's determined that I have the folder with her paperwork in it. It's really not here. I would bet money she has it. I swear she took it. Maybe a delay tactic?
After our texting yesterday and the tension with MIL I don't expect much contact from her. And there wasn't a good way to end the texting yesterday. I did say I want her to be ok. Which seemed ok.
