november 1st... wife says we should separate. i had trouble accepting it and did the begging and pleading routine that did not help matters. she kept saying im so sorry.. you deserve someone who is into the things you like. i decided to move downstairs into the basement and to try and give her space. i ended up messing that up.. we got into an arguement and i moved out of the house so things would cool down .. fast forward to the current situation.. wife is in love with her boss. who is married ( but just about to separate from his wife) she told me she is in love with this guy.. .. so i moved back into the house and she moved out to a friends place.. i have our daughters.. she claims she will never live with me again and only wants to be friends. she comes over every morning to drop the girls off at school and every evening to read them a book.. i love my wife with all my heart and its killing me to know she has feeelings for another man... uh.... help?????? me 34 w 33 d 6 d 3 together 14 yrs m 8yrs