Hello! New here.

I posted a thread but it's waiting moderation.

I've been dealing with my husbands BD since last December 2012. It's been up and down ever since... But lately mainly down. I wish I had found this site & book back then.

He still lives with me & the kids, but has moved into the den "for space" in the last two months.

Need help. Mainly for myself. Very sad, and I know I've been pushing him away and going about his all wrong.


Me, 39. H, 35.
3 boys - 13, 11, 9 - 1 w/ multiple disabilities
BD Dec 2012
Sort of a quasi in-house sep Nov 2013