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Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating sthelen #2420287 01/04/14 03:44 AM
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2stubborn2quit Member 2 Joined: Sep 2013 Posts: 369	This must be so difficult, especially since therapy sessions always leave you emotionally exhausted. I think that if you want that divorce, follow your heart. If you don't, then you should let him do his own dirty work. He can file. If the situation with OW is too hard to handle, go no contact. Just don't let yourself be pushed into something you don't want to do. People do recover from A. I don't know how, it must be so hard, but they do. Resentment occurs when we aren't doing what we need to care for ourselves, though we expect others to do it for us.

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Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	08/20/13 07:33 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	08/20/13 07:35 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	08/21/13 03:50 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	08/21/13 05:10 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	08/21/13 02:19 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	willbwell	08/21/13 02:44 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	chasingpavements	08/21/13 05:38 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	08/21/13 08:01 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Accuray	08/21/13 08:24 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	subguy	08/21/13 08:31 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	subguy	08/21/13 08:32 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	08/27/13 02:21 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	09/18/13 10:20 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	BrightFuture	09/19/13 01:37 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	09/19/13 01:10 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Pudmuddle	09/19/13 01:25 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	labug	09/19/13 02:46 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	SemperFi00	11/13/13 03:46 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	11/15/13 02:36 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	tigerlily78	11/15/13 04:16 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	11/15/13 01:49 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	11/15/13 05:51 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	11/16/13 01:05 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	11/29/13 08:25 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	11/30/13 01:58 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	12/27/13 05:53 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	12/27/13 02:38 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	adinva	12/27/13 02:49 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	12/27/13 10:27 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	adinva	12/27/13 10:57 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	12/28/13 01:36 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	12/28/13 01:40 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	12/30/13 12:48 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/01/14 05:59 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Mimi00	01/01/14 08:18 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/01/14 08:30 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/04/14 03:12 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	2stubborn2quit	01/04/14 03:44 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	01/04/14 04:23 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	AnotherStander	01/04/14 07:56 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/10/14 01:51 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	JayMan	01/10/14 01:58 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/13/14 07:09 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	MrBond	01/13/14 07:24 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Starsky309	01/13/14 07:31 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	3boymom	01/13/14 07:37 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/14/14 03:49 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/14/14 11:10 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	willbwell	01/14/14 11:47 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/14/14 01:15 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	melissag	01/14/14 02:05 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/14/14 06:42 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/14/14 06:45 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/15/14 05:44 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Starsky309	01/15/14 10:19 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/15/14 11:50 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Starsky309	01/16/14 09:49 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/19/14 03:16 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/19/14 10:01 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Starsky309	01/20/14 02:18 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	01/20/14 03:48 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	01/20/14 03:52 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/22/14 05:02 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	01/26/14 06:10 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/27/14 11:20 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	01/28/14 06:13 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/28/14 09:03 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/31/14 12:37 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	melissag	01/31/14 04:47 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	willbwell	01/31/14 11:44 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	AnotherStander	01/31/14 01:17 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/31/14 06:14 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/31/14 10:57 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	GotoGirl	01/31/14 11:17 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/31/14 11:43 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	02/03/14 01:06 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	02/03/14 01:42 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	3boymom	02/03/14 03:25 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	AnotherStander	02/03/14 05:03 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Starsky309	02/03/14 05:44 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	02/03/14 05:50 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	02/07/14 04:03 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	melissag	02/07/14 05:13 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	02/07/14 05:33 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Starsky309	02/07/14 02:25 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	02/07/14 06:16 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Starsky309	02/07/14 06:21 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	AnotherStander	02/07/14 08:16 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	02/08/14 07:26 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Starsky309	01/14/14 02:45 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	AnotherStander	11/15/13 03:16 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	11/15/13 05:04 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	3boymom	01/14/14 02:32 PM

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