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Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating sthelen #2420283 01/04/14 03:12 AM
Joined: May 2013 Posts: 162 S sthelen OP Member
OP sthelen Member S Joined: May 2013 Posts: 162	This is so hard and such a roller coaster. We went to therapy together today. It is clear that I have to let go if he doesn't end it with OW very soon. I'm not sure what that looks like. Proceeding with the divorce? Or just going hard core no contact and giving him more time? And working on me during that time? The divorce is pretty much all hammered out and agreed on. There is nothing contentious. Once I make that call it can be finalized very quickly. And even if he does end it with OW I'm starting to have a lot of anxiety about recovering from the affair and saving the marriage. Can it really be done??

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Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	08/20/13 07:33 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	08/20/13 07:35 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	08/21/13 03:50 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	08/21/13 05:10 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	08/21/13 02:19 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	willbwell	08/21/13 02:44 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	chasingpavements	08/21/13 05:38 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	08/21/13 08:01 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Accuray	08/21/13 08:24 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	subguy	08/21/13 08:31 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	subguy	08/21/13 08:32 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	08/27/13 02:21 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	09/18/13 10:20 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	BrightFuture	09/19/13 01:37 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	09/19/13 01:10 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Pudmuddle	09/19/13 01:25 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	labug	09/19/13 02:46 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	SemperFi00	11/13/13 03:46 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	11/15/13 02:36 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	tigerlily78	11/15/13 04:16 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	11/15/13 01:49 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	11/15/13 05:51 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	11/16/13 01:05 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	11/29/13 08:25 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	11/30/13 01:58 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	12/27/13 05:53 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	12/27/13 02:38 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	adinva	12/27/13 02:49 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	12/27/13 10:27 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	adinva	12/27/13 10:57 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	12/28/13 01:36 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	12/28/13 01:40 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	12/30/13 12:48 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/01/14 05:59 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Mimi00	01/01/14 08:18 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/01/14 08:30 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/04/14 03:12 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	2stubborn2quit	01/04/14 03:44 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	01/04/14 04:23 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	AnotherStander	01/04/14 07:56 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/10/14 01:51 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	JayMan	01/10/14 01:58 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/13/14 07:09 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	MrBond	01/13/14 07:24 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Starsky309	01/13/14 07:31 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	3boymom	01/13/14 07:37 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/14/14 03:49 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/14/14 11:10 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	willbwell	01/14/14 11:47 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/14/14 01:15 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	melissag	01/14/14 02:05 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/14/14 06:42 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/14/14 06:45 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/15/14 05:44 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Starsky309	01/15/14 10:19 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/15/14 11:50 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Starsky309	01/16/14 09:49 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/19/14 03:16 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/19/14 10:01 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Starsky309	01/20/14 02:18 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	01/20/14 03:48 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	01/20/14 03:52 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/22/14 05:02 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	01/26/14 06:10 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/27/14 11:20 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	01/28/14 06:13 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/28/14 09:03 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/31/14 12:37 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	melissag	01/31/14 04:47 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	willbwell	01/31/14 11:44 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	AnotherStander	01/31/14 01:17 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/31/14 06:14 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/31/14 10:57 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	GotoGirl	01/31/14 11:17 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	01/31/14 11:43 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	02/03/14 01:06 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	02/03/14 01:42 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	3boymom	02/03/14 03:25 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	AnotherStander	02/03/14 05:03 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Starsky309	02/03/14 05:44 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	02/03/14 05:50 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	02/07/14 04:03 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	melissag	02/07/14 05:13 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	02/07/14 05:33 AM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Starsky309	02/07/14 02:25 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	02/07/14 06:16 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Starsky309	02/07/14 06:21 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	AnotherStander	02/07/14 08:16 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	lovethehub	02/08/14 07:26 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	Starsky309	01/14/14 02:45 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	AnotherStander	11/15/13 03:16 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	sthelen	11/15/13 05:04 PM
Re: Growing a Backbone, No More Cake Eating	3boymom	01/14/14 02:32 PM

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