I have become stronger and more detached. Detachment does not feel like I thought it would. There is no longer any fear of the future without Skippy. I am making plans on my own and plans to move forward. And although I am not ready to seek it out, if an opportunity to move on presents itself, I am no longer opposed to doing so. But I am still not detached enough to seek out those oppotunities.
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Originally Posted By: Portia
Detachment appears to be a state where I can go hours without thinking of him. Where even when I do, it is not anything but a little sad for what was lost but it is not heart wrenching anymore.
And this ^^^^^…
Portia, it looks like you verbalized the thoughts that have been in my head exactly. We have such a similar circumstances. I too wonder how we can be friends, when H doesn’t treat me like one. I also cannot understand why I’m not done yet.
I wish you a very happy and different year 2014. I’m looking forward to it myself.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
