Good man. My ex-wife who is a bank manager emptied the joint account and went into $3500 overdraft and also $30k in joint line of credit. I had to keep pumping payments into he joint account for 14 months to prevent mortgage from defaulting. She would just keep pulling. We are now litigating the post separation withdrawals. Oh, her BMW payments that was in joint names was also coming out. I kept paying that too in order to protect my credit...thus protecting hers. She did not care. I owe her on equalization and she owes me $30k in post-separation costs. Still litigating. Close the joint account if you can. Get the legal advice. You will also need to establish valuation (separation) date. Ask lawyer about out this. Start getting the at date of marriage values of what you brought into the marriage. This will be deducted from your net family property. Do not agree to leave the house. Love ya pal.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
