So you wanna play with magic

[Whiterose]

Great....she's going to be a peach! I'll let them dig a grave and then file a suit against her if she keeps going......She should spend this much time getting her 20 something year old boys off of the couch and into jobs!

I think, Wonka, that they wouldn't understand even if someone explained it to them line by line......they're just not that bright (sorry!). Did they expect me to absorb half of H's pre-marital debt? To walk away from MY inheritance? To not get what is legally my children's to get? Even the spousal is for my boys....to help me pay the mortgage so my boys can stay in the house! I can support myself, no problem, get a small apartment and live just fine but it's my boys I need help with and they have needs that he needs to step up to the plate on! What's funny.....He told SIL #2 (when he left) that he knew I'd take him for everything but it was better than being miserable with me. I didn't take him for anything more than what was ours but I guess it's not better than living with me.

Control him like a puppet master?!?!? Well, I will admit that I was the "mom" in the marriage and it was not healthy and could not continue BUT I did not take over the position without a willing, and needy, partner.....