All thanks for the input. So nothing bad..nothing good per se. It is what it is. Just keep moving.

3, I would imagine that the fact of us having some contact almost daily due to parenting etc just makes the process of getting time and space lengthen. (Ie ...we just text or emailed or talked yesterday...so I really don't feel like ive been away from you even though we didn't talk about IT.) Make sense? I am just moving forward, but ialso see now that she's someone I'm. Looking for (not literally) each day. Detach detach detach.

me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14