Your W needs space and time. She is attempting to limit contact so that she can avoid any R talks and/or drama that has occurred before and after BD. If my H had to come into the house, he would bolt as soon as possible. I think that he looked at my like a ticking time bomb just waiting to melt down. As I got stronger, stopped the R talks and stopped looking/acting so fragile, he started lingering, he started hanging out and just acting more relaxed. But it took months to get to that point. The time and space is necessary for the WAS, but really really beneficial to the LBS too. I actually got to the point that I liked when H left because I was tired of walking on egg shells. Think of it as a good thing. Keep moving.
