Rough rough night. I was in a bad mood, dunno why, and sorta took it out on W a little because I found out the password she gave me to her ATT account didn't work. I haven't even looked at it in like 3 weeks, but it made me nervous. W swore she hadn't changed it, but I'm pretty sure it doesn't change by itself. I then saw that OM had tried to call her on Christmas Eve, but at least the call was "cancelled" which means she hit the hang up button. Unfortunately, I think the stress of piecing kinda boiled over, and it was a pretty good tussle.
The issue is that this happens, and we've come far enough that the next day we're usually fine, but it ALWAYS has to be me that comes and says I'm sorry, and hugs it out, and then she'll apologize and do the same. If I didn't do it, she would probably do the cold shoulder angry/nasty thing for weeks; and I don't think I'm exaggerating. Weird that someone can be so hard and stubborn.
I guess if I have to do some of the heavy lifting until she gets emotional help, then that's my lot... Counseling Friday at 11:00am.
