Thanks AS for commenting it really means a lot to me and i really mean that, i feel pretty alone right now. I am also of the opinion it has been blown out of all proportion and in a way its masking something else, maybe she has been searching for an excuse and this was served up on a silver platter for her, i did all i could as a parent/child/husband and that does make me feel better although not much Think i will let the heat die down over the next few days before trying to rebuild bridges all round.
Thank you again
Me: 39 W: 33 Son:7 Daughter:4 Its Over: March 7th 2013 Moved back home Mid June, trying to make it work