Just let me say, I haven't advised you not to confront but rather to be fully aware of what the consequences are. Be ready to be done.
If by confront you mean revealing what you know and trying to work out the best possible ending to the marriage that's very different than confronting as a threat.
Commercials are manipulative and controlling. :)Just sayin'
Bug,
I think we are approaching the same page here. By confront, I am agree with you and would just add, "revealing what I know and trying to work out the best possible ending to the marriage, or take a necessary step toward any possibility of a new R with W."
I'm not sure what else confront would mean. I'm (at the risk of the NMMNG crowd chiming in) a nice guy, not an ogre!
Do you think that the best chance of saving the M lies in not confronting (as defined just now by me), and letting her continue her journey thinking this is all still covered up?
_________________________ Me: 37 W: 37 M: 11 D:5 S:2 IDLYA, W removed rings, BD 07/13 EA/Fantasy (PA?) confirmed 12/13 W moved out 05/14
