Then let her. Unless you want D (and in my opinion you are far too early in your sitch to know what you want) then do not do the work yourself. If she does it and asks you for info, then provide it in a timely manner. But leave the work to her. Don't be surprised if she doesn't push forward with it, often WAS's will really talk D up early on but then if you remove the pressure from them they will put it into limbo.
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But I'm hurting still.
Totally normal. Different people recover at different rates, so be patient with yourself.
Originally Posted By: burning heart
From what she said no one is happy with what's going on.( There's a bar we always went to and this friend and others from there attended our wedding. ) And she told me W brought in OM and didn't introduce him new years. Everyone thought it was weird she was there with him. And no one really talked to her.
Doesn't matter. It won't have any impact on your W. I think early on we look at things like this and think "oh maybe this will be her wakeup call!" But it's not, it just has zero impact on them when people don't talk to them (or even tell them what they're doing is wrong). They can't be reasoned with, they're acting purely on emotions.
