Anyway, my question is.... What's the main difference between the 2 books?
DR was written after DB and is sort of an "update" of DB. It's not really necessary to read both, but if just reading one then DR is the one to read.
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My ex had a lot of masculine qualities and I'm a sensitive man
Have you read The Married Man Sex Life Primer? It gets into alpha versus beta behavior quite deeply. Sounds like you're heavy on beta, while this may have worked in the M it's not likely to attract your W back as much as alpha will.