Dingo, it really is mind-boggling. I mean they literally have it all. They're wealthy, successful, the kids are totally independent of them, they have a huge home that they built themselves that is paid for, luxury cars that are also paid for. His W has traveled all over the place since retiring and because their kids and their families are both local she gets to spend a lot of time caring for the grandkids. Some women would kill to have her "problems"! But she's not "happy" and hasn't been for some time. It is so similar to my sitch that it's eery.
Mimi, thanks, I hope I can help him. He's a fixit guy, so I'm really trying to talk him down out of that mode because it's just making his W more angry! He asked his W if she would go to MC and she said she wasn't sure. Ouch. I think maybe she's farther down the WAS path than he realizes. I told him to quit pushing MC and check into RetroV.
