Also from the email that me and neighbors wife exchanged it did appear that they were at least passively agreeing that W and I are not well suited to each other and should be apart. They are each on their second marriages and often compare our marriage to their past experiences. I know that when I vented to husband he often would compare my W to his XW and say I could do so much better and be happier with someone else.

I let them in. I gave them permission to judge my marriage. That's. Another big 180. Keep my mouth shut. In times like these, their opinions can change the outcome.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14