I think its important for me to also be honest with myself. This has happened to her before. This is her 3rd time of moving home to mom and dad. My SIL told me many of these same symptoms appeared long before I was around. It was always" somebody else's fault." I have to do what's. Best for me and my kids. I don't want the woman that just left. She is selfnabsorbed and not a good partner. I have my own faults. That is all i can remedy. Time to let go....
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14