Hi Rick, I agree with you about the horse stuff. W often ran up bills I didn't see until it was too late. I make the majority of the income. She can not afford this without our joint earnings. Even then we are really strapped for cash.

Prior to it being about horses it was about church and the church consistary. members would ask me..."she's soooo generous with her time, how does she find time for you and the kids....she doesn't, that's how...." but I didn't say that I would just smile and wave.

Love, my neighbor's H did tell me it was awkward and that he was staying out of it. he said, it was his W's idea to take her in as much. I am trying to be understanding. today if feel angry and frustrated withW for walking away. I am only human.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14