Thanks for both responses. I figured the 'timeline' thing would be hard to pinpoint and I whilst I had some concerns about the sex I wasn't able to define them well until you provided your answer.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014