Your bossy is lucky to have you in his corner AS! That's wonderful that you can share what you've learned, I hope they are able to save their marriage.
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope