I was watching a rerun of Dr.Phil. It was about a couple and the H had a MLC. He had an OW for a few months and said he doesn't remember any of the day he left. He said he was crazy??
Anyway his W found OM and as soon as she did her H had a miraculous recovery.
This triggered something for me. My H 7 years ago when we went through this before had OW and broke up a couple of times. He was no longer seeing her but I found a Mr. Right Now not Mr. Forever.. All of a sudden my H had a change of heart and wanted to try again. This was after 8 mos.. That is how long it took me to date..
Not sure if that will happen again but....and not sure I would take him back again but I just thought I'd mention this and might help someone. I am not saying try to make them jealous but, whatever works. It's really about getting back out there and date ..
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
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